Blowjobs , hand jobs, wanking and how much I love all of this as a Sex positive feminist.

Before we begin please can I remind work folk who can’t look me in the eye etc that if you know me great if you want to read my blog great. But remember it’s not been forced on you. I didn’t actually write it for you…or maybe I did depending on many many things..

Overhead a while ago two women discussing how blowjobs were dirty etc.. I was astounded but knew better than to ask anymore they made it pretty clear already what they thought.

I love giving blowjobs I love the look on his face as I take tip of his cock in my mouth, swirling my tongue over the head, hearing him gasp. I love edging him taking all of his hard beautiful cock to the back of my throat fast and hard then slowing it right down. Licking and alternating strokes and sucks with gentle blowing. Looking up at his face. Knowing his sweet agony, having total control over his pleasure vat that moment. Only I know if I’m going to make him come or keep up the slow stop start then fast pace. It all depends on my mood and his. We are pretty intuitive. I love it even more when a look at his face results in him pushing my head firmly down and him practically begging me for it. In fact I love this the most. His want is my want it feeds my need.

I love how he tastes, how his cock gets harder and more throbbing feeling the pulsing just from my mouth working it’s magic.

Equally I love just wanking him off . Simple strokes up and down . Looking at his face seeing the want. Trying to emulate his wanking technique (you never will) but the fun is in trying to get it to that. So this requires observation watching him, the thought of it already has me wet. I can almost come just watching him wank. I love again the look on his face, his need, his cock growing harder by the second, the small gasps, the more urgency that seems to build the faster hand stokes , precision practiced . Observe but get wet and horny too. You know what he’s thinking about and you want to be able to recreate that wank efficiency.

Sometimes he will see how much want my eyes are giving and literally put me in a position of his choosing and fuck me with an urgency that’s raw and so dam hot. Or he will come hard from his wank and I will gasp along as he does almost tipping myself into climax just from seeing his pleasure. Occasionally I’ll finish his handy work with my mouth. It can be tricky to match the pace he had but I like a challenge. I love to feel him come in my mouth after such a scenario. Love licking my lips and swallowing. I’ll Slowly slide my body level with his after kissing his lips and basking in the joy of this pleasure. The pleasure I want everyone to be able to experience.

I’m a feminist I’m sex positive and I love giving. I love receiving but sex is a two way act. It requires communication and that’s what can make it great. If you can’t talk sex with your partner. Who can you talk about it with? Do reach out to the sex positive blogging community for inspiration. There is so much advice and positivity out there.

I hate how in 2018 women are saying this is a dirty act that somehow the social norms that women ate fed mean we must not like sex actually feed this. What can be done? I hope blogging about this stuff as so many amazing folk do is a step to addressing the issues here. I hope also the new Sex Education to be delivered in schools will offer the next generation a better more healthy rounded view of sex and pleasure.

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